Stafford Challenge Update
Feb. 22nd, 2026 04:50 pmI’ve already posted titles of the poems I wrote for weeks 1 and 2. Here are the remaining titles of poems I’ve written so far.
Week 3:
31 January 2026 - Both Sides Now
1 February 2026 - A Eulogy for X. J. Kennedy
2 February 2026 - A Eulogy for X. J. Kennedy (revised)
3 February 2026 - With Reservations
4 February 2026 - Blackberry Jam
5 February 2026 - The Lily Jean
6 February 2026 - Amtrak Acela
Week 4:
7 February 2026 - Amtrak #2
8 February 2026 - Weather Woes
9 February 2026 - The Bicycle
10 February 2026 - Life Is
11 February 2026 - Sleeping in Hotels
12 February 2026 - Household Archaeology
13 February 2026 - Lucky or Not?
Week 5:
14 February 2026 - The Afghan Song (to the tune of The Garden Song)
15 February 2026 - Post Valentine’s Day
16 February 2026 - Presidents Day
17 February 2026 - Spectral Haiku
18 February 2026 - Cuddly
19 February 2026 - Seeking My Muse
20 February 2026 - The Idea Shop
A Brief Sample
I won’t post anything I might want to submit to a magazine/ journal / anthology someday, since most publications count things published on-line as prior publication and won’t accept it. But I’m pretty sure I won’t do anything with this one and it’s a good example of my fondness for turning lists into poems. I got the idea for this poem while walking back to my hotel after going to the cabaret show I saw recently in New York and thinking “life is a cabaret.” I crowd sourced phrases starting with “life is” via the hive mind (i.e. my Facebook friends) and this is what I came up with.
Life Is
Life is too short
Life is too long
Life is hard
Life is easy
Life is like a box of chocolates
Life is just a bowl of cherries
Life is what you make of it
Life is a song worth singing
Life is a highway
Life is a river
Life is strange
Life is funny
Life is a journey, not a destination
Life is a cabaret
Life is life
Community:
One of the main reasons for doing the Stafford Challenge is the community fostered by the cohort. There are roughly 1300 people doing it this year. There’s a private Facebook group. And there are monthly talks by guest poets. There is apparently going to be a conference in the summer, which I think will actually work with my schedule.
The other benefit of being part of the cohort is access to monthly guest poet talks. The January kick-off talk was by Kim Stafford, the son of the late William Stafford whose practice of writing a poem a day is behind the whole thing. I wasn’t able to make it to that one live, but I did listen to the recording and here are three takeaways from it:
- ”Poetry is our native language.” We speak in units of breath.
- Betty Sue Flowers wrote that the progress of the artistic process is Madman, Architect, Carpenter, Judge. I really like this concept. Your ideas can be completely wild, but then you have to make plans and do the work to construct the product from them. Then you can look at what you’ve done and assess whether or not it meets your goal and go through this whole process again to revise it.
- The muse is the inner voice , waiting for an audience.
The second talk was Thursday night and was by Emmett Wheatfall. Here are my takeaways:
- He presented a 7 point challenge, which didn’t particularly resonate with me because most of them seemed fairly obvious, e.g. “listen to the feedback of your readers.”
- I did like his statement that Hemingway wrote down seven rules a day, but I’m not sure if those were the same rules or he came up with new ones every day. At any rate, seven is a number with a lot of mystical significance.
- He said that a quote of poetry is called a “stretch.” I’ve never heard that before.
Three is also a mystical number. I don’t think I can find more than three takeaways in most hour-long presentations. I did also write down one snarky note. Namely, he quoted somebody talking about the artist, Edgar Degas. But he pronounced the surname as “DEE-gus” instead of “Day-GAH.” Aargh!
And Now
I need to find a topic for today’s poem.
advice from camera nerds
Feb. 22nd, 2026 04:43 pmI take a lot of pictures of three classes of things:
- Cats: This pictures are good on any camera, including my agéd single-lens SE.
- Birds: These pics are shit on the aforementioned handheld phone.
- Moss and lichens and bugs: These pics are fine on the phone, but could be much better.
My real constraint is my hands and arms. I can't hold my arms above my head, I can't hold a phone still very long, the non-ergonomic controls and shape of a phone are shit, I realistically can't carry a tripod on a hike, and I can't bear weight on my shoulders or the back of my neck for any length of time. (I recognize that this collection of constraints means my pictures will never be great, and that's okay.)
So, questions:
- Are there any cameras that have particularly good ergonomics, are particularly light, or have a good reputation for accessibility?
- I believe I could get a remote shutter trigger & a remote focus, so I could prop the camera somewhere and get a good pic from a less painful angle; do you know how to choose a hand-friendly one? (Not finger-fiddly, easy to attach & detach, easy to click buttons.)
- On a modern camera, is it possible to get lenses good enough for bird pics that are not, you know, heavy? Last time I had an SLR I was taking pictures on film, so that tells you how out of date my knowledge is.
- What's the lightest tripod that works well for people with shit fine motor control and no finger strength? I can sort by weight on hiking sites, but hikers put up with a lot of fiddly controls that I can't handle.
(I'm only looking for advice from your experience or from the experience of people you trust. Please don't GoogleKagiGoPT it for me!)
Early Humans
Feb. 22nd, 2026 03:01 pmA new analysis dates three Homo erectus skulls from central China to about 1.77 million years ago, making them the oldest securely dated hominin fossils in eastern Asia.
That older age shifts the arrival of early humans in the region back by roughly 600,000 years and compresses the timeline of how quickly our ancestors spread across Eurasia.
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The same layer holds stone tools and animal remains, tying the skulls to a specific moment nearly 1.8 million years ago rather than the younger dates long cited.
Leo Brouwer's 'Omaggio a Tárrega' - Nuevos Estudios Sencillos No 5
Feb. 22nd, 2026 08:54 pmAnd yes, it is the same thematic material he uses in 'Flight of the Lovers through the Valley of Echoes', second movement of 'Decamerón Negro'(which I have posted at some point). In a much more concise form.
The bones of houses show in the summertime
Feb. 22nd, 2026 03:13 pm
I have not yet managed to get hold of her memoir, but I deeply appreciate being notified of the existence of E. M. Barraud, who identified herself with chalk-cut hill figures, candidly described her relationship status as "technically single, but 'married' in a permanent homosexual relationship with another woman," published under her assigned initials and was known in Little Eversden where she worked for the Women's Land Army as John. She gave her wartime responses for Mass-Observation as both a man and a woman: "People are people, not specifics of a gender." I had never even encountered her poetry.
Media Post
Feb. 22nd, 2026 02:16 pmTelevision/Streaming: a couple of episodes of Buffy and Farscape.
Buffy:
Farscape:
Books: It has not been a great week for books! I had two books I stopped reading: T. Kingfisher's Hemlock and Silver and Ben Greenman's Emotional Rescue.
The Kingfisher book was a book club read for January that I never got in time. It just recently became available as I was finishing The Reformatory. I got about twenty percent or so in and I was just kind of annoyed at the book, so I stopped reading.
The Greenman book is essays on music. I thought it would be more like Rob Sheffield's Love is a Mix Tape or Talking to Girls About Duran Duran. No. Greenman's book was rather boring and also felt a bit misogynistic, so I had to quit reading that one, too.
I'm now reading Pylon by William Faulkner. It's a bit different than the other fare of his I've read, but I'm interested to see where it goes. It's set in a fictionalized New Orleans during an air show, so lots of talk of planes and pilots.
Listening to: only one Rolling Stone Top 500 album this week. Number 488 is The Stooges self-titled album from 1969. On the 2012 list, this album was at 185. Rolling Stone blurb:
Fueled by “a little marijuana and a lotta alienation,” Michigan’s Stooges gave the lie to hippie idealism, playing with a savagery that unsettled even the most blasé clubgoers. Ex-Velvet Underground member John Cale produced a primitive debut wherein, amid Ron Asheton’s wah-wah blurts, Iggy Stooge (né James Osterberg) snarled seminal punk classics such as “I Wanna Be Your Dog,” “No Fun,” and “1969,” bedrock examples of the weaponized boredom that would become a de rigueur punk posture.
This one is not really my cuppa, but I didn't outwardly hate it (like the Suicide album). It's a pretty short album, too. I can see the influences they had on other bands. Of the songs here, I like "I Wanna Be Your Dog," which I've also heard covered by several bands, as well.
Playing: I finished Assemble With Care; this is by the same studio that did Alba: a wildlife adventure. It's a visual novel with puzzles; you are Maria, who repairs electronics and such, and you've come to a little town for their festival. Various folks want your help, so you take apart and reassemble game systems, tape decks, watches, and more as you learn about issues in these folks' lives. It's a short but sweet game. The controls were occasionally a little frustrating (you can use your mouse on PC, but sometimes if I clicked too quickly, I'd put the piece I was working on to the side and then would have to hover over and pick it up again).
Derem dodged a bullet?
Feb. 22nd, 2026 10:50 amSPOILERS for Starfleet Academy Episode 7 - Ko-Zeine
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Episode 7 is a cool down from the trauma/drama of episode 6, where a War College instructor and a War College student lost their lives, and many were wounded, and all on the training mission were at risk of dreadful consequences. It is apparent that the school year has continued on since the Miyazaki crisis, and there is now a short Spring Break - All Worlds' Day - and the Academy and College are emptied. We follow two pairs of Academy students as they appear to highjink their way through more life lessons.
Caleb and Genesis do what appears to be the standard Disrespect the Place and the Equipment, but turns out to be a full reveal of how far Genesis will go to achieve her goals. In previous episodes we have seen her natural leadership, and lateral thinking under pressure. Here we are shown that she is a candidate who is following in the Kirk-rules-are-just-guide-lines attitude.
Derem and Jay-Den face the old Trek Trope of the Political Betrothal in Childhood. We learn more about who Derem is and who Jay-Den is becoming. Derem was promised in childhood to a royal person, Kaira, who will inherit the responsibility for a whole planet.
Derem is surprised by the timing of the marriage. He was expecting to complete Starfleet Academy, serve a number of years, and then return to take up his duties. Things have sped up because Kaira is inheriting earlier than expected.
Kaira tells us that Derem's selection as her future consort was decided by a "birthdate lottery". Derem tells us that he was raised with her, almost like a sibling. Other things we learn from both of them show that Derem is being treated as female human consorts are often treated - their interests and vocations are not only secondary, but expected to be relinquished as needed.
And Derem meets the moment, and gives up his interests and achievements without a second thought. As we discover, he has regrets, but he is determined to put them aside and, as he says, "make it work".
Kaira is happy to accept his obedience, as royalty often does, without really understanding that it is a sacrifice - willing, but nonetheless a sacrifice. It is only when Jay-Den gives the Ko-Zeine's (Best Man) toast to the new couple, that Kaira understands what Derem's willing obedience is costing him.
And then she immediately rejects Derem, and ejects him, forcing him to abdicate so she can have the marriage annulled. She then makes the rejection his fault because he had personal interests that he put aside for her. She effectively says that he shouldn't have had any interests that were not the same as hers, and that willing sacrifice was not enough, and, in fact, insulting. Then she notes that she will be the first woman to rule Khionia alone.
This puts new light on Kaira's previous actions. She obviously has not been communicating with Derem or he would have known about her mother's health scare. She arrives with her own Ko-Zeine, Quill, apologizing for not being present when Derem arrived - although she was apparently aware that the matrimonial abdustion was occurring. Kaira is holding hands with Quill, and it is obvious they have become very close in Derem's absence. Considering that she is envigorated by the challenge of being the first woman to rule Khionia in her own right, and that Derem would always have been an ornament to her life, and not a partner - not even a junior partner - it is likely that she was looking for a reason to put him aside all along.
It appears that the audience is expected to believe that, as brutal as the process was/is, Derem will be "better off" returning to Starfleet. However, we are not shown a shot of Derem gazing happily/dreamily/wistfully at the meteor shower, unlike Kyle and Jay-Den, Genesis and Sam, and solitary Caleb.
Derem has experienced a crushing rejection. He can't return to his previous groove because his goal is no longer available to him. Will he ever be able to return home, or will he always be known there as the Failed Consort? If this calcifies his experimental asshole persona it will be a tragic waste.
Telephone MV Ficlet: too many hits off this memory
Feb. 22nd, 2026 07:42 pmTitle: too many hits off this memory
Author:
Fandom: Telephone - Lady Gaga ft Beyoncé (Music Video)
Pairing: Beyoncé Knowles/Lady Gaga
Tags: Ficlet, Alternate Universe - Serial Killers, Post-Canon, Kissing, Vaginal Fingering
Rating: M
Word count: 491
Summary: Gaga likes making memories more than she likes revisiting them.
Author notes: Well, in a perfect illustration of 'never say never' here is a surprise new installment of the show me your teeth series after, uhh, over ten years. But a) I heard a rumour of Telephone pt2, and b)
too many hits off this memory on AO3
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Feb. 22nd, 2026 11:41 amSilver lining - the big stories out of the gold medal game are about the Hughes bothers and Hellebuyck.
LOUD - Stargate Atlantis (PG)
Feb. 22nd, 2026 02:38 pm
Title: LOUD
Author:
Character(s): John Sheppard, Rodney McKay
Pairing(s): John Sheppard/Rodney McKay
Rating: PG
Length: 100 words
Warnings: none
Notes:
For
For
For Fluffbruary 2026 prompt day 22 - sound
Summary:
John decided they needed new mission equipment.
LOUD on AO3
Birdfeeding
Feb. 22nd, 2026 01:23 pmI fed the birds. I've seen a large flock of sparrows plus one female and two male cardinals separately.
I put out water for the birds.
EDIT 2/22/26 -- I planted 3 peonies 'Sorbet Mixed' under the apricot tree. The mix includes white, light pink, and dark pink. These cost $14.98, so about $5 a root. That's a great bargain for peonies, which average $20-30 each and catalogs and the high end is downright exorbitant. So if you want peonies, look for cheap ones at home or garden stores this time of year. Due to the unseasonal warmth, the ground here is unfrozen, so I was able to plant them immediately. \o/
EDIT 2/22/26 -- I labeled and mulched the new peonies.
I put out a fresh cake of peanut suet.
EDIT 2/22/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.
EDIT 2/22/26 -- I started the process of trimming dead stems from the wildflower garden, which is going to take a while.
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Weekly proof of life: recent media | Spring Crunch Eve
Feb. 22nd, 2026 03:10 pmI also read a few more volumes each of Hikaru no Go and The Kurosagi Corpse Delivery Service, but I'm still in rereading territory with both. (I think I've already read up to vol. 12 of Kurosagi, but for Hikaru, I think the odds are against me really realizing when I've hit new territory until I go to enter a volume in Goodreads and find it's not already on my Read list there.)
Watching:
With my crunch time at work starting, it's not an ideal time for us to start a show that's a significant time commitment or that's going to leave me desperate to see a next episode when work is eating most or all of my evenings. It's possible this will result in me just showing
(I still don't feel actively fannish about HR at all, but am enjoying being adjacent to it and seeing all the fannish excitement and meta and such. I have saved many fic recs to my read-later list on A03, but have yet to actually read a single one [and may never, given how slowly I go through fic--there's still a steady stream of Guardian fic I haven't read that also goes on that list].)
Weathering/Working: We have what sounds like a significant nor'easter blizzard arriving at some point tomorrow, with heavy wet snow. Will this be where our luck fails for the season and we lose power for the first time? (I'm completely astonished that it hasn't happened yet. Probably it's not really because the generator and backup power are warding that off, like carrying an umbrella around...)
And of course the spring crunch is set to start tomorrow in the late afternoon, right around when the storm is likely to be in full swing. Will the weather have much impact? (Mainly, I guess, in terms of Those Who Speak all being able to make it there safely; I kinda hope that there's some kind of backup power in their actual building, but I don't know for sure one way or the other.)
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Feb. 22nd, 2026 10:59 am10 AM - Okay...so I need 1/3 pound ground meat patty...for seven days...that' makes 7 patties, and you put a tsp of salt per pound, so...7 tsp of salt?
11 AM, After taking a bite - No. Not 7 tsp. Less. A LOT LESS. WHOLE LOT LESS.
Canada issues Puerto Vallarta advisory after violence erupts in Mexican city, several states
Feb. 22nd, 2026 01:12 pm
Global Affairs Canada has updated its travel advisory for the coastal city of Puerto Vallarta and other parts of the Mexican state of Jalisco following a sudden explosion of violence that includes road blockades with burning vehicles and clashes between federal authorities and armed groups.
