Longtime Friends

May. 17th, 2026 03:47 pm
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Last Monday and Tuesday I had visitors – my friends Jan and Ann from New Hampshire. I haven’t seen them in 20 years, plus or minus... They seem to have hardly changed, so they have done well for themselves. Their idea of retirement is way too busy/active as far as I’m concerned. They seem to have unpaid jobs – which they’ve chosen to do and like very much. I, on the other hand, am greedy with my time and energy. After 17 years of school and 47 years of working, I just want to do my own thing.

But they seem happy in all their activity. They are out West visiting friends and places in Oregon and Washington. I reserved Monday and Tuesday to chat with them – and have some fun activities and good food.

Two Days, Below This Cut )
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Question a Day Memeage

10. Are there some colours you would never wear or use in your home?

Never wear? Yellow. I look horrid in it. Also not a fan of lime neon green or neon colors. Hot pink - wouldn't use in my home.

11. When was the last time you took a photo?

Today. About an hour ago )

12. It’s the International Day of Plant Health! Healthy plants mean a healthy planet! Have you ever planted something and watched it grow? Do you look after your houseplants or your garden plants diligently?

I kill plants. So I don't own any. So that would be a firm no? My family members however seem to be good at this...

13. It’s Top Gun Day! Ever seen it (and/or the sequel)?

Saw Top Gun about three times in the movie theater in college in the 1980s when it first came out? We had a $1 movie theater. And we also jumped movies, which is basically once one ended, we jumped to the next theater and into the movie that had just begun. As a result of this - I saw a lot of movies for next to nothing in theaters - ah the good old days. Some days I miss the 1980s.

Yes, I saw the sequel. It's nowhere as good as the original. The music, the acting, the filming, etc - the script - were just better in the original. Movies were better in the 1970s and 80s, for some reason. Tech has not necessarily made all movies better.

14. Have you ever seen a ‘mockumentary’ film or TV show? The term was coined when the 1984 “This is Spinal Tap” film was released, and notable examples on TV include “The Office”.

Yes, I dislike them. (With the possible exception of Arrested Development, which is the only one I've made it through.)

They give me a headache. For some reason or other my brain dislikes watching people talk to me from a film or television screen.
I can listen to them. But I can not watch talking heads without getting a headache after a while.

I don't find them funny. Annoying? Yes. Headache inducing? Yes. Cringe-inducing? Sometimes. Entertaining? mildly. Funny? It's not my brand of humor too obvious. I have a dry dead pan wit. Mockumentaries are parodies or satire and usually far from subtle.

I know that I'm in the minority on this...unfortunately. If only more people liked and thought Buffy the Vampire Slayer was funny and entertaining or the Good Wife, and far less were entertained by The Office, my life would be a whole lot easier. But alas, no.

15. Bees are responsible for pollinating many of the plants we eat (a current estimate is that they are responsible for every three bites of food we eat). Have you seen any bees this year?

Yes. Recently. On my walk today.

16. Henry Fonda was born today in 1905 – have you seen any of his films?

More than I can count or remember the names of. He was very good at playing the every man type of role. And had excellent range. I saw him in Grapes of Wrath, Once Upon a Time in the West, My Name is Nobody (which is my favorite Western), On Golden Pond, and countless others...I grew up watching his films on television and in movies. I even studied some of them.

17. It’s World Telecommunications Day – have you ever learned something new online?

Yes. Although I have no idea what at the moment...I learned that race, gender, sexual orientation, age, size, shape, looks, fall away on social media - all you see are the words and the exchange of ideas. I forget or don't see any of the annoying identity politics or classifications that often masks who people truly are at their core. We aren't these societal definitions. And I kind of figured that out on social media discussion boards, when I had no idea what race, religion, sex, gender, age, class, ethnicity, nationality, etc - folks were. All I saw were folks who liked to discuss Buffy, and literature, and movies, and had families, and loved one another. And fought with one another over silly things.

It was freeing in a way.

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May. 17th, 2026 03:44 pm
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 Woke at 7:30 because the air purifier stopped suddenly. One of our famous Sunday morning blips. Lay in the dark waiting for it to come back on, except it didn't. Got the Hydro outage map on the phone but it showed nothing, presumably because no one had reported it. Tried to file a report with unanswerable questions-- are the street lights out? No idea: the sun is up so they're out-- and got an error message when I tried to file. Was getting jnto a bit of a state because blips usually only last a minute or two. At long last thought to try turning on a light, and there we are. From which I learn that the purifier, unlike the window fans, will not restart automatically once it's been stopped. A nuisance but at least it's not a major outage.

But then I was awake at this unearthly hour. Went downstairs to get breakfast, gritted teeth and stepoed on scale, and yes: cream liqueurs and chocolate covered pecans have done a number on me, aided a bit by summer water retention, but mostly overindulgence. Cannot quit alcohol yet because nothing else works for the back spasms but shall confine myself to vodka and fruit juice.

Today was supposed to be a reasonable 20/68 but we're in the high 20s already. They say tomorrow will ge slightly cooler, which I doubt, but on any case have put off gardening in favour of sitting in front of a fan. I have a new acrostics book which is at least slightly better than tiktok videos, especially since their algorithm is now giving me AI slop and transphobes.

Culinary

May. 17th, 2026 06:46 pm
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Last week's bread held out pretty well.

Grocery delivery came early enough that I had time to get going dough + tomato topping for a sardegnera for Friday night supper, with Salame Milano added before baking.

Saturday breakfast rolls: adaptable soft rolls recipe, 4:1 white spelt/dark rye flour, dried blueberries.

As I was going to an afternoon gathering chez [personal profile] coughingbear and [personal profile] hano, and time did not permit of making foccaccia, I made cornbread (plain white flour + baking powder, half and half with mixture of fine/coarse cornmeal, since sourcing medium cornmeal remains impossible) to take instead.

Today's lunch: had seabass fillets, and for the wild variety, cooked them thus, which worked quite well, served with baby Jersey Royal potatoes roasted in goosefat and asparagus steamed and splashed with lime butter.

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May. 17th, 2026 01:45 pm
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Finally, after a couple of quite miserable days with cold symptoms, headache, etc, today I feel almost normal. There's still a lot of nose-blowing happening, but other than that I'm fine. I even went out for a long run (8 km/5 miles) early this morning. Out of curiosity, I wanted to see if I could actually walk to the dentist, so I ran that way and found that it's slightly under 4 km/2 ½ miles and therefore easily walkable, weather permitting. Unfortunately it's supposed to be about 30°C/86°F on Tuesday, the day of my appointment, too hot for me to walk that distance, so I'll be driving. However, I now know what my destination looks like so no worries about finding the place.

The campers arrived back fairly early this morning (the place where the camp was held was only about 25 minutes away), so they were only gone two nights and one full day. Apparently my poor son in law got too cold in a tent last night and ended up trying to sleep in the car, which can't have been very comfortable.

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May. 17th, 2026 08:57 am
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I have angry nerves in my right foot. This is the foot that gets the periodic steroid shot. Mostly, because of the steroids, it's ok. Actually, mostly, it's absolutely fine. But, then now and again, it hurts. The hurt does not seem to be dependent on a particular activity or shoe. Sometimes it just hurts a little. But, last night, in the middle of the night, it felt like someone was shooting it with a nail gun. It would get shot and then rest a minute and then get shot again. I got up and took some Tylenol which appeared to do nothing. I got up and got a freezer wrap which also did little. Finally the nail gun went back into the holster but yikes. It was not a fun time. This morning, it's nearly fine. It feels like there's a pain memory but no pain.

Dr. Google agrees with my foot guy - nerves. Dr. Google recommends a metatarsal pad. Amazon is bringing me one tomorrow.

I did go swimming this morning and it was lovely.

They finished the carpet situation and put most of the baseboards back. There is one section that they did not finish but I suspect that's on the agenda for tonight. No painting. Yet.

I did finally watch Remarkably Bright Creatures and I was not disappointed. I feel like it did justice to the book but the book was still different and both were very enjoyable. Now I'm ready for Project Hail Mary which I figure will be available sometime in June/July.

I have a box on my side table that houses my remote controls, my chap stick and a few small cat toys. I left the lid up last night and just now Julio spent a long time mining the contents. Finally he pulled out a silver stick and gave it to Biggie and got a little mouse for himself. Biggie is now happily chewing/chasing the silver stick and Julio is throwing the mouse everywhere. Cat theater.

Today I have no plans. I have plenty to eat. I have plenty of yarn projects and lots of good TV and a pretty decent book going. Not sure I could ask for more!

I have a couple of monthly subscriptions to yarn boxes and got this lovely blue and white in one of them recently. My rule is that I need to use up the yarn in the yarn box before the next one comes OR cancel the box. So yesterday I made this coaster set with part of the yarn this month. The rest is going into another project which I'll finish today.

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It really is all laundry all the time

May. 17th, 2026 10:28 am
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Person A: You know you're supposed to finish the laundry if you start it during your shift!

Me, silently: Don't think of it as my three loads of laundry that I didn't finish during my shift, think of it as your three loads of laundry that I got started for you. Though really, if Person B had done her laundry during her shift like she should have then neither of us would be having this conversation today.

(There was no reason for all four of the women to have their hampers literally overflowing with clothes. Somebody, or more like several somebodies, clearly has been falling down on the job here.)
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Gideon picking up language from YouTube is hilarious. I explained to him yesterday that you can use the right trigger to drift in Mario Kart and he replied "Bro! That's sick!"

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The trick is that the top arm needs to be firmly clipped to the drawer - not jammed to the back wall. Time will tell if my fix lasts.

Edit: No, X*, not thank god, thank me. I'm the one who fixed it! God had nothing to do with any of it!

* Not the real initial.

good things to see on YouTube

May. 16th, 2026 10:00 pm
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After work today (no, I didn't do needed gardening or chores), I realized that Project Hail Mary is available to purchase online. I bought it here on YouTube and watched it again, on the small screen this time. It's still a great movie. I understand that it's earning great revenue, so ideally it means that many people were also impressed by its hopeful version of our best selves and our life out there among the stars, where we have new friends awaiting us.

I also watched this video about a fascinating science topic. I already knew a tiny bit about chemical polymorphs, since that's basically where prion diseases come from. I had no idea, however, that even small molecules have solid forms with multiple polymorphs. This video goes into fascinating history and details of polymorphs for yummy chocolate and for catholic pipe organs made of tin... all while explaining the story of the HIV drug ritonavir that almost ceased production in 1998, because a new and useless-for-treatment polymorph suddenly started forming in drug factories around the world. It's a fascinating story, if you've got 33 minutes to spare for the video.

I haven't made any great gluten-free version of a blooming onion, which is yummy to eat. Today, though, I also watched this video (just 5 minutes long) with a seemingly easy-to-prepare onion alternative that looks delicious. I need to give it a try someday. I wonder what I can use to replace the slice of bacon.

Nonsenical Book Meme

May. 16th, 2026 07:19 pm
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Meme stolen from coffeeandink - who actually told us all to steal it, so it doesn't count.

Take five books off your bookshelf.

[with the exception of the first, they are all TBR, with the hopes I'll get around to reading them.]

Book #1 -- first sentence: "Rain drenched the city, cold and relentless."

Book #2 -- last sentence on page fifty: "Unlike my horses, a Spider would never get cold or hot or tired."

[unexpected challenge do I pick the last sentence or the last complete one? I picked the last complete one.]

Book #3 -- second sentence on page one hundred: "People say that after this event, the rich man's family slipped into a decline, and in the end, went entirely to ruin."

(Unexpected challenge: do I pick the second sentence or the second complete sentence? - weirdly I had the same unexpected challenge as coffeeandink.)

Book #4 -- next to the last sentence on page one hundred fifty: "Within an hour, his strength had so depleted that he could no longer handle the weight in his pack, although he refused to let us remove anything, forcing us to fish out the heaviest items, such as his water bottles and his cameras, when he wasn't looking."


Book #5 -- final sentence of the book: The local sheriff met us in the street and eyed us suspiciously.
"Runaways?" he asked.
"We are," I said.
"Any of you named Nigger Jim?"
I pointed to each of us. "sadie, Lizzie, Morris, Buck."
"And who are you?"
"I am James."
"James what?"
"Just James."

(Yes, I am treating one paragraph of dialog as a single sentence for the purposes of the meme. Fight me!)

Make the five sentences into a paragraph:
Rain drenched the city, cold and relentless. Unlike my horses, a Spider would never get cold or hot or tired. People say that after this event, the rich man's family slipped into a decline, and in the end, went entirely to ruin. Within an hour, his strength had so depleted that he could no longer handle the weight in his pack, although he refused to let us remove anything, forcing us to fish out the heaviest items, such as his water bottles and his cameras, when he wasn't looking." The local sheriff met us in the street and eyed us suspiciously.
"Runaways?" he asked.
"We are," I said.
"Any of you named Nigger Jim?"
I pointed to each of us. "sadie, Lizzie, Morris, Buck."
"And who are you?"
"I am James."
"James what?"
"Just James."

I promise it wouldn't make any more sense if I chose another option for step 5.

Book #1: This Kingdom Will Not Me by Illona Andrews
Book #2: Antidote by Karen Russell
Book #3: Strange Tales from Japan - 99 Chilling Stories of Yokai, Ghosts, Demons and the Supernatural - collected and retold by Keisuke Nishimoto, Translated by William Scott Wilson.
Book #4: A Walk in the Park: the true story of a spectacular misadventure in the Grand Canyon by Kevin Fedarku
Book #5:James by Percival Everett

Thread by Essex Hemphill

May. 20th, 2026 06:36 pm
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Trying not to think of you
yet your face colors
every contour
of my mind.
And every way I turn
inside of a minute
I collide
with your laughter.
I am wind,
and you
are chimes.


******


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Ah, capitalism at its finest!

49,000 California residents of the area get their power from California-based Liberty Utilities, who get their power from Nevada-based NV Energy, and come May 2027, NV is going to start sending its power to data centers because it can make more money.

Lake Tahoe is an Alpine lake that is divided by the California/Nevada border, most of it on the California side. It looks to me like most of the residents are on the western/California side.

California regulators can't do much because it's a Nevada utility. Nevada won't do much of anything because it's California residents that have the problem and thus is not their voters/tax-payersresponsibility.

From the article, emphasis mine: "However, NV Energy representatives pushed back on the idea that data centers are the main culprit behind the decision to stop supplying energy to the Lake Tahoe community, telling Fortune that it was part of a long-term transition predating the AI boom. After NV Energy initially sold its California assets to Liberty in 2009, it struck a series of temporary agreements to keep providing power to Lake Tahoe until Liberty could secure another energy supplier.

Now, for whatever reason, NV Energy has decided it cannot keep extending such agreements. That leaves Liberty scrambling to find a new energy supplier as it plans to offer a replacement contract for any bidders capable of meeting California’s renewable energy requirements."
*cough* more money from data centers *cough*

https://arstechnica.com/ai/2026/05/energy-supplier-abandons-lake-tahoe-residents-to-serve-data-centers/

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May. 16th, 2026 01:03 pm
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I've got the house all to myself for the next three hours or so. (Actually since about 10 am.) Violet and her father are at a scout camp. They left yesterday evening and won't be back until Sunday afternoon. My daughter and the other two girls have gone out to have lunch with a friend of hers who lives an hour or so away (closer to New York city), and will also be doing quite a few errands while they're out. My daughter was planning a nice quiet day at home with two fifths of the family at scout camp, but her friend called and asked her to lunch and she decided that while she was over that way should get some errands done. I'm enjoying the quiet now, but my morning was moderately busy.

I managed to sleep well last night - until maybe 4:15 am, when I was woken by the smoke alarm chirping intermittently. After lying there for a few minutes I realised I wasn't going to get any more sleep so I reluctantly got up to see if I could silence the chirping. I eventually worked out that I could pull out the battery tray, and this worked to stop the noise. However, I had woken up with a bad headache and didn't feel like doing anything much until it seemed like a reasonable time to go upstairs for breakfast a couple of hours later. All was quiet upstairs with my insomniac son in law away, so I didn't want to wake anyone up unnecessarily.

After breakfast I started putting together some egg/vegetable muffins for future lunches, but didn't do the eggs because I knew Aria would be extremely disappointed if I didn't let her do that part. When she got up I was happy to let her break and whisk all 18 eggs. As she was about to start she declared that she really wanted to make an "omelette" (many eggs whisked and baked in a casserole dish) for her father but that she wouldn't be able to if we used the eggs for my muffins, but her mother and I assured her that there plenty of eggs in the fridge (as her father had bought two dozen the day before), so she was happy to know that she would be able to make the omelette tomorrow in addition to the muffins today.

When the muffins were done I walked over to Stop&Shop (About 3.4 km/2 miles round trip) to buy some more cold medications, but now I think the cold is on the way out and maybe I won't need to use them. Because of my headache and lingering cold symptoms I didn't feel like getting any longer or more strenuous exercise than that, even though early this morning it would have been perfect for a run.

By this time it was almost lunch time. I started a load of washing before lunch and after lunch hung it up around my room to dry. I wish I had an outside drying place because today would be absolutely perfect for drying washing outside. I wonder how my daughter would feel about me stringing up some drying lines between a couple of the oak trees in their back yard? I wonder if the neighbours would complain, since our back yard is visible from the houses on both sides of us.

Swim? no Swim?

May. 16th, 2026 07:13 am
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I think I might not swim today. I'm still not dressed so it's still a possible but not a probable. I need to get my attitude ready for elbow coffee. I need to rest my skin. And... I'm lazy. But it is a nice, cloudy morning - perfect for swimming. So, it could still go either way.

The carpet installers made quite the racket last night. It did not keep me up but it made the cats crazy. The living room is a mess from all their running around last night.

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The old carpet is on the left. They said installation would take 2 nights. I wonder if they are going to paint the walls before they put the baseboards back. I'm guessing not. So there will be a color collision there for a while. They did the 4th floor just before us so I could go up there and find out about the paint but why spoil the surprise?

At elbow coffee today, Joan will bitch about the installation noise and the smell and 42 other things. She got a head start yesterday when I saw her briefly. Briefly, but long enough for her to bitch about the noise from the carpet installation on 4. Sigh.

Julio uses a scratching post religiously. So religiously that he has shredded the one I've had for years. It is a nice one and was very expensive but really, I have had it for a good 10-15 years so I've gotten my money's worth. It's in the bedroom so no one sees it but me. But, finally I got tired of looking at it. So I ordered a replacement.

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I'm a little concerned that 1. he won't use it as a scratcher and so will use something else, like furniture 2. he will use the wicker and destroy it. But, I finally decided to give it a shot. So we will see. It should be here late Monday.

The Mariners game is at 4 today and tomorrow. Tomorrow it is on Peacock which I not longer have a subscription to. I'd buy a month and use it to watch the game and catch up on a couple of shows, but the last time the Mariners were on Peacock, it was just unwatchable so I'll just listen to the game tomorrow and save my sheckels.

Ok, no swim. I'm going to get dressed and clean up the house and spend some quiet me time before I go hear about the maladies of the week. (You know, really, I don't have to go to elbow coffee. And I bitch about it every week, it seems like, but I do appreciate the painless check in with my neighbors and it's an hour I can easily afford.)

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The Incandescent, Emily Tesh

May. 16th, 2026 02:33 pm
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There have been a number of magic school books in recent years; in The Incandescent, we largely follow events at Chetwood School through the eyes of Dr Walden, Director of Magic. She is an expert magician, and clearly an effective teacher, if a little weak on the pastoral front. And the fact that she is back as a staff member at what was once her own secondary school is definitely not a sign that's she's not moved on from what happened when she was a student there...

I enjoyed the way magic was woven into an English boarding school, and how nicely Tesh captures (and satirizes) the nature of institutional life. I like a competent protagonist, too, and Dr Walden is very competent, and pleasingly keen on the merits of education. I almost (but not quite) always understood the choices she was making. The plot works well, and throws up some surprises, but comes together pretty well in the end; although the motivation for Mark's behaviour is never really explained (nor is why we the readers are more aware of the red flags than Dr Walden is). I also appreciated the exploration of the ethics of demons and how magicians interact with them.

I enjoyed this a lot.

Happier Birthdays to [personal profile] sabotabby!!!

May. 16th, 2026 09:14 am
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Hoping that all goes well for your latest adventures!

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