My dream house
Mar. 5th, 2016 06:54 amWhile we didn't remain there I am glad that for a while we lived in rural Ohio. While it was
mst3kmoxie who found us the house, over our time there I grew to love it. I miss it, but I am glad of what it taught me of what makes me happy. Once the children are grown it should be quite affordable to move back to somewhere that ticks all the boxes, especially if I may telecommute or otherwise work from home. I therefore think it worth noting now what I liked, while I still remember well.
( what living in rural Ohio taught me about the kind of house that I like )
Basically, I want what is actually fairly common in rural America. I can wait. Our previous house was nice indeed: many of the rooms had tall windows, the house had three porches, the garage was enormous, but that's all surplus to requirements.
It's relevant to make a note about regret. I generally avoid some experiences because I fear that I would rather like them and then have to live with the knowledge that I miss them but amn't in a position to make them a routine part of my life. A nice thing about having enjoyed living in the house I now remember fondly is that I am at least patient: it is much easier to miss it knowing that I am likely to be able to return someday to a more modest version of it. When I did live there I was mindful of how I should appreciate it at the time.
( what living in rural Ohio taught me about the kind of house that I like )
Basically, I want what is actually fairly common in rural America. I can wait. Our previous house was nice indeed: many of the rooms had tall windows, the house had three porches, the garage was enormous, but that's all surplus to requirements.
It's relevant to make a note about regret. I generally avoid some experiences because I fear that I would rather like them and then have to live with the knowledge that I miss them but amn't in a position to make them a routine part of my life. A nice thing about having enjoyed living in the house I now remember fondly is that I am at least patient: it is much easier to miss it knowing that I am likely to be able to return someday to a more modest version of it. When I did live there I was mindful of how I should appreciate it at the time.